Women describe pegging their boyfriends and husbands
● My boyfriend enjoys anal fingering and licking. One night while making love he slid a strap-on on me. He lay on his back and spread his legs. I slid the dildo between his butt cheeks rubbing the tip on his anus, relaxing him and spreading his hole until I could slide inside him, moving in and out of him, watching the pleasure on his face, hearing him moan. I gave him the one of the best orgasms he said he had ever had. I love spreading him and giving him anal pleasure. Trust me there is nothing more erotic than hearing your guy say, “Fuck me like a woman.”
● I have been married to my childhood sweetheart for fifteen years. We have two teenage boys and live a happy suburban life. Behind closed doors, however, we are not the quiet couple others see. We enjoy all kinds of sex. He has penetrated me anally, with fingers, tongue, and penis and we enjoy it immensely. However, he has always been reluctant to be penetrated. I enjoy erotic stories and used them to bring the subject up to him. We proceeded to oral stimulation, then one finger inserted during a blow job, and finally to the point of using a small strap-on. Each phase of the journey added to our trust and enjoyment. His orgasms seemed to escalate as we progressed. My orgasms, although never at the same time, seemed more intense because of the trust he placed in me. We talked about each phase before we proceeded to the next. Of course all the foreplay and lubrication standards for anal sex with a woman are required for men as well.
As a woman I truly believe the act of penetration was empowering. I felt like I was given a gift and I treat it as such every time he lets me strap-on and thrust in. We have found a new strap-on which stimulates me much better, and I look forward to our first simultaneous orgasm. I guess to get to the point and answer your question, try to introduce it in story form, either written or visual.
● I wear a dildo with my partner, and he likes it, because we both like how it challenges stereotypical gender roles, and because the motion against his prostate just feels good (not having a prostate means women don’t get much out of anal penetration, so I wish men would stop trying to force it on us). I love using a strap-on with my partner, because it let’s me feel in control of what’s happening, (I feel that way when I’m on top in regular sex too). It proves that he’s just as able to be penetrated as I am, and that’s so cool, because men tend to act like women are made to be “fucked” because we have a hole between our legs. Well, so do men!
● When you have sexual chemistry with somebody, you want to be close to them, inside them, and that’s how I feel when I make love to my boyfriend with a strap-on. That emotional connection, plus the motion of humping up and down against him, feels really good to me, so it’s not just about his feelings. I don’t really even think of the strap-on as a “cock”—more an extension of my clit (which is a phallus, just like a penis, even though patriarchal culture never admits it). For all the straight men out there who like being penetrated by women, I say, you’re fantastic!
● A while back, I ordered a strap-on, and saved it for the right moment. One night, while we were getting intimate, he started fingering my ass, which is a signal that he is interested in anal. Sure enough, he whispered in my ear, “How about some anal tonight?” I gave him a mischievous look and said, “Sounds great! Wait right here.” I went to get the lube and the strap-on and walked back in the bedroom with it on. As soon as he recovered from the shock, I told him to lie down on the bed so I could lube him up. I straddled his ass and spread lube over the dildo and his hole, and gently pressed forwards. He mumbled something like, “Be gentle now,” as I started thrusting. I experienced an awesome power trip, fucking him in the ass! At one point I thrust deep inside, reached around, and found that he was rock hard. A few strokes with my hand, and he blew, but still stayed hard. I asked if I should keep going, and he said don’t stop! This was one of the most erotically charged nights of my life! Talk about expanding your horizons! Later, we talked a little about it, and it wasn’t weird at all. I don’t think I’ll be wearing the strap-on every night, but what a trip!
● I am a twenty-six-year-old happily married female. I like to address the “why would women want to” issue about strap-ons. Two main reasons: First, control. Even when women are on top we still aren’t totally in control, but if you’ve got a man bent over you sure are. Second, anal can feel good whether you are gay or straight, male or female. If you don’t like it, fine, but don’t judge. I like to make my husband feel good, so whatever works is fine with me. As a final note, it seems to me that maybe guys enjoy this because it is the only time that they may feel that they have no obligation to get anybody off but themselves.
● My boyfriend didn’t like the idea of anal penetration because he thought it was a “gay thing” to get anally penetrated. Well, being the curious woman I am, I wanted very badly to get one of those strap-on dildos and ram it up his tight butthole real hard.
We had a few drinks, and when he was a bit drunk, I bent him over on the bed for a perfect rear view, then started fingering his anus. Then I was feeling more horny, so I began tonguing his anus. It definitely got my sex juices going. So I lubed him up, and then I nailed him right in the ass. For me it was funny at first, seeing the expression on his face when the nine-inch dildo entered his tight sphincter. I felt really good that I was being the “nasty anal dominating bitch” it turned out he always wanted me to be. My hubby’s derrière is very delectable in my opinion. Try it girls—you’ll like it!
● One night my husband and I were lying in bed talking about our fantasies and some of our sexual exploits before we married. He very sheepishly told me that one of his greatest fantasies was to be taken anally too.
We searched the web and ordered a nine-inch dildo panty from one of the sites selling toys. While we waited for the dildo I started to use a small six-inch dildo on him to get him ready for the larger one. It was one we had used to prepare me for penetration. One night while I was working and stretching his opening, I accidentally hit his little gland inside. He went crazy with lust and I probed until I found it again. I never saw a man so turned on and he actually climaxed without me touching his penis! We were both very excited and it gave me a sense of power to know I could do that to him. I became very good at finding his prostate and he wanted to have it massaged almost every night afterwards.
My dildo panties arrived three weeks later and by then I had him opened up pretty good. The panties had an extension on the inside which stimulated my clitoris when I moved in and out of him. I stood looking in the mirror after I put them on and I never felt so powerful. I wanted to watch the expression on his face the first time I took him so I put him on his back on the big bed. The feeling of power that flowed through me as I controlled this grown man was exhilarating. He has a small build and I had no trouble rolling his legs up on my shoulders. I had lubed him heavily as the dildo was thicker than we had expected. But all our preparation had paid off and I felt the big shaft slide inside him and he told me to go ahead. I buried the nine inch dildo in him on the first slow thrust and he sighed in appreciation.
What followed was one of the most lust-filled twenty minutes we had ever experienced and as I thrust deep into him I lost control as the dildo rubbed against my clitoris. I was almost overcome with lust as I drove into him faster and faster as he begged for more like a little bitch in heat. I hit his gland and for the first time in our married life we climaxed at the same time! He actually screamed as his climax rolled over him and I collapsed on him with his knees pressed against his bra as my climax rolled through me in waves.
I lay with the big dildo buried in his ass for several minutes before rolling off him. Even though we have had similar results since then I will never forget that first time and I would highly recommend it to women who are considering penetrating their man. I have become almost addicted to the power trip that I get when he is positioned underneath me waiting to be taken. Also I find him much more pliant and he does almost anything I ask him without hesitation. He seems more happy and content than I have ever seen him.
● I tried a strap-on with my last partner, and I really enjoyed it. The back and forth movement was a big turn-on, as was the feeling of penetrating someone, an experience that women may desire, but can’t always experience without toys. I liked wrapping my arms around his hips and feeling his body as I did it. It was my first and only time, but I would definitely do it again.
● My boyfriend loves me taking him with a strap-on, ideally with him on his back so I can give him a well-lubed hand job at the same time. We started off with a very small, slim vibrator, and worked up to the smallest strap-on I could find—for some reason it’s very hard to get them in sensible sizes, and also of a good quality—the harness and dildo of the one I have are very flimsy, but the more expensive ones I’ve seen are also huge.
He is generally a bit sore for a day or so afterwards, but he always begs me to do it again so I guess it must be worth it. Personally I found that anal sex left me seriously uncomfortable for several days and it wasn’t worth it, but then his cock is much bigger than the dildo I use on him!
● Oh some women are so lucky! Within the last couple of years using a strap-on on a guy has been my deepest fantasy. I’m currently engaged to a wonderful, sweet man who is unfortunately anal phobic. Just recently he ventured to insert one of his fingers in my anus during sex and I found it to be extremely pleasurable.
As far as me doing the same to him, it may never happen. After reading about it I find it really reassuring that there are straight men out there who enjoy receiving anal stimulation.
● I love pegging my guy, and he loves it too. We went out together and bought a leather harness and a couple of dildos, plus an extra attachment which holds another inside me as I peg him. We usually orgasm together. I love how this turns him on and the sounds he makes. And “doing” him really makes me hot! Sex is fun—don’t be afraid to ask for what you want. Life’s too short.
● A year ago I got a strap-on dildo as a gag gift from a friend. I threw it in the closet and forgot about it until my boyfriend rented a porn video in which women take turns sodomizing a guy. I was shocked to find this a total turn-on for me.
That night I slipped away to get the strap-on. When I returned my boyfriend was naked on his belly on the bed. I quickly lubricated the dildo and without notice climbed on top of him and began to give him anal sex. After overcoming the initial shock he relaxed and let me do him until we both climaxed. It was the most erotic thing I had ever done.
It has made me more aggressive. In one case, when he came into the kitchen in only a towel, I went into the bedroom and put the strap-on over my jeans. I went back into the kitchen, stripped off his towel, bent him over the counter and did him.